Letting off some steam--aka--BITCH SESSION #1.

DRAMA FREE, I WANNA BE!!!
I used to be the type of person who would just say whatever came to mind, without thinking first. I changed that many years ago, and ever since-I've just made it a point to try to live my life drama free. If someone says something I don't like or I don't agree with-I let it soak in, but don't respond. I don't add my 2 cents or engage in something that could possibly grow into some uncontrollable monster. I want no part in any of that.
What's upsetting is those people who are full of DRAMA want me to be too. They may say this or that to me to try to get a response or a rise out of me. I just don't respond at all. I guess you live and learn, but I don't see how GROWN men and women are OK with creating DRAMA and keeping it going as some of the people I know do. They're proud of it too! Will tell you quickly that they talk about people behind their backs and that they love to talk. WHY? For what? What do you gain out of talking about people behind their backs? Does it really make you feel better about yourself? That's what they say about people who do that kind of thing ya know, that they do it because they're insecure and can belittle others, therefore building their own ego up.
I know that's what I've always heard--have these people never heard that before? I would be embarrassed to be one of those people who talks about people behind their backs or starts rumors. I wouldn't want anyone to know that my ego was so small that I needed to do that to feel better about myself.
I really thought that as you got older, feeling the need to talk about people behind their backs was something that you grew out of. I guess not for some people. But, does that mean that they've stayed at that mental age? In some, if not most cases-yes they have. They haven't gotten any older mentally and the same things that gave them a payoff then, still do!
As far as I know, I'm not being talked about behind my back-but even if I am I really could care less. I'm more upset at the fact that there are people out there doing this still when they're 20, 30 years old or older. Get over yourself!

I have a lot more on my mind..going to get the Dukester and then returning to begin a new post. Bitch session today has just begun. I'm hoping to get it out of my system and let it rest here instead of inside my heart and mind.